Ever found yourself waiting for something or someone and you really would rather be somewhere else, i know most of us know the feeling.. when it feels like life is passing you by and you are stuck in this waiting moment till whatever, or whoever you are waiting for comes. It is not a pleasant feeling and most of the time we tolerate it only because we have no choice, but what if you had a choice in the matter..and i don't mean a choice of abandoning the appointment, but i mean a choice of having something better to do while you wait, wouldn't that be a great idea and a great use for time which otherwise go to waste i imagine. Well I think we all have a choice there, as you wait instead of feeling like its the longest 30minutes or even 30 years of your life try seeing it an opportunity to explore life deeper and find ways to make it more meaningful. Before most of you think that I'm talking about positivity let me hasten to add that i am talking about more than just positive thinking. I am talking about realising that in that moment of waiting that we all hate so much there is a divine appointment with destiny, God has ordained you to be in that moment at that particular time and instead of whining look around and within and within and ask yourself why have i been granted this moment of solitary waiting, and as you ask that question and more such deep and probing questions, you will learn more about your life's purpose. The usual thing is for us to rush through life and complain about things we dislike like being stood up etc, but those moments are necessary in the grand scheme of things that is the whole picture of your life, if you never had those moments where you wait for something, some of us might never appreciate the beauty of life as we are mostly busy with one thing or another, but in that moment of waiting God presses pause on your life and forces you to find yourself not moving on to the next big thing you would want to but to stand in that moment and appreciate it for it might never come again. So before you grumble and complain about how late your next promotion is, your bus or plane, or even Mr/Miss Right, pause and look at where you are now and appreciate every tiny details as this moment will soon be a memory.